Anger

Anger... easily tempting and the most destructive thing in the world. 

 

Everyone has felt anger and will feel it again. Its one of the core human emotion that cant be avoided. we feel angry for a lot of reasons, ranging from betrayal, treason, heart break etc. Philosophers and Psychiatrists have come up with lot of research and theory about anger and how it can be tackled or used to our benefit. My argument is, is anger really a bad thing ? I don't think so. If anger is one of the core human emotion, and lack of it will make us less human.

 

In fact I would argue that anger has been directly or indirectly the cause for all advancements in human civilization. People were angry about shortcomings in the society and that urged them to come up with better solutions/inventions. People also have caused destruction to the society due to anger. Like every other human emotions like fear, love, sadness etc., there is always a negative side to it. Sadness can cause people to be depressed or can motivate them to make themselves a better person or help others from avoiding them the misfortunes that happened to them.

 

It is strongly believed that love can overcome every negative force that can happen to

human beings including anger. It is true, love can heal and gives you a heavenly feeling even if you feel it only for a while. But what makes you experience the most powerful feeling of love? you need to experience a deep anger or sadness in order experience intense love and be able to appreciate it.

 

Whenever I have felt anger, it was because of heart break or disappointment. But every single time that anger has made me into a better person and made me experience various amazing things in life that wouldn't have been possible otherwise. That anger has pushed me to go beyond my comfort zone and that led me to find some amazing friends whom I love to my life. All the love that exists in my life wouldn't be possible without the anger I had experienced. The next time you feel a fiery anger, be sure that you are going to get better as a person and more love is around the corner.